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Tuesday 19 April 2011

Love or What??

It was a normal boring office day, i was supposed to go with the Technical team in field to solve some problems. It started raining heavily and we decided to go and eat Koozi Haleem, so we all jumped in a carry van.

Suddenly mobile rang on the dashboard i took it and incoming call was from "I LOVE YOU", was surprised on asking it was discovered that the cell belonged to a technician. He talked to who ever was on the other side very politely and gently he said "main apnay boss k sath barish enjoy ker raha houn tum sunao kia ho raha hai". Call ended and out of curiosity i asked him who it was, he blushed and said your "Bhabi". We all had a good laugh about it.

We arrived at the restaurant, i asked him how he got married. At first he said its a long story, on insisting he agreed. We decided to go to a milk shop, we were all sitting in the carry van and drinking milk.

he started with a big sigh, "sir i was in love with eldest daughter of my uncle(chacha) and we both were very close to each other. It continued for 1-1/2 years, then suddenly one day she came and said to me that she is getting married. shocked and out of ideas i said to her tell your mother that you love me and will marry me only. She didn't responded and went home, i was very angry and frustrated at that time. I asked her to meet me, she came and i told her that i have a solution we should run away and marry. I assured her that i will take good care of her and love her forever. I heard a shocking reply from her, "I cannot resist my family and will marry to what ever man her parent decides to". I was very disappointed and heartbroken came home and kept thinking about her and the promises she made to me. I was thinking why its me why ?? then i ran away without telling my family or friends, ended up in Karachi at Shrine of Abdullah Shah Gazi. there i spend three to four days and met some guys who offered me a job at there canteen, i worked there for about six months. It was underpaid job so i left and went to the sea port to find a job, some friends from Karachi helped and i got the job on a boat as fisherman. i use to travel alot, went to the Gawaddar by sea and visited Balochistan many times, obviously due to my job."

Then he stopped and asked me "Boss ap kabhi Balochistan gay hain" i replied "no".

In return i asked him "and your family didn't tried to find you when you were missing according to them."

"I don't know but they must have asked my friends, but even they didn't knew where i was."

then he jumped back to the story "i worked there for about six months, then somehow my brother got a tip that i am working in Karachi. He came and brought me back home, i was so ashamed and didn't wanted to see my Ex's face. I didn't came out of my house for some days, but eventually it was back to normal. One day my family decided to visit Sialkot, my village. I also went with them and we went to the uncle's house. My Ex's younger sister came to me and felt sorry for my lost love and started asking me questions about her sister i avoided the conversation, she insisted and suddenly asked me if i can love her the way i use to love her sister. I laughed and said you are her sister and will leave me like she did, she promised me and asked me to test her for that. At first i was not sure what to say or do, but things were beyond my control. Once again i found my self in love, this time with the sister of my Ex."

we all started laughing and we giggled for a moment.

he said " sir, then we started writing letters and meeting secretly. One day i decided to send my family to ask for her hand from my uncle, my uncle's answer was not even close to yes. When i met her after her fathers rejection thinking that she will not resist her parents as her sister. She said we should run away i cannot live without you, we decided to talk to our families first as i was not in favor of running away this time. Both families had many harsh moments after our announcement of love, like typical backward families. After long struggle of two years i finally got married. Now i have a loving,caring and beautiful wife and a son four years old."

I asked him what you suggest Love or Arrange marriage??

"It doesn't matter but marry the women who love you, because she will always make you happy and you get the upper hand in the relationship"

2 comments:

  1. well i didnt see tht coming,but not bad...liked the story though..interesting!!!!

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